I'd had a super busy week at work. I'd been arriving at the office at 06:00 and leaving at 20:00. I guess that's the life of an IT Manager whose staff are co-located in the UK and India. It was Saturday 08 March 2014, I didn't have work and more importantly I didn't need to think about work!

I use a variety of methods to meet guys and girls. When I'm in the mood for some thoughtless man-on-man fun I often use Craigslist or Gaydar. I've had varying success on both however I've never had my timewasted and when I do put in a concerted effort I normally get results. I don’t do it often as I prefer to have regular partners because it’s just easier to avoid all the hassle online. Also, regular partners are better for exploring with.

I woke up knowing I needed some mutual fun with the right kind of guy. I deliberately didn't post to early in the morning because at that time its full of guys with morning hard-on's that are only after a wank. I elected to post around mid morning and posted the following ad with a few pics:

Start of Ad----->


Nice dark Indian cock on offer for willing recipients. I'm experienced, bi, single with no real complications and prefer similar types of people (uncomplicated).

Sexually I'm a top, into mutual oral, kissing, lots of touching (I'm told I have a good touch). Like dirty guys, willing to try things. I adore being rimmed so anyone who into rimming definitely jumps the queue.

I'm reasonable looking (I guess), polite and conversational. I'm seeking someone similar in terms of friendly, polite and educated etc. Age and race are unimportant to me.

I can accom (or travel within reason) and pics are available for genuine guys only. Contact me with some details and lets hookup ASAP today. Ideally looking for a regular FB but small steps!

End of Ad----->

I always try to emphasis in my ads that I like conversation, I'm sane, uncomplicated etc. I just like to meet a guy whom I can hold a conversation with as its no different to meeting anyone else in my mind. I received the usual replies from guys saying "hi, lets meet now", reponse "delete". Or "can you send me more pics", response "delete". And then I received this email.


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Hi / very like minded guy here.

43 British Indian. Mainly straight - but bi curious with brief experiences.

I'm very sub and very perverted though. Have gf for last two years
(I'm divorced with 1 k**). Although gf doesn't know maybe I could rim
/ suck you while u look at video / pics of her. Maybe even phone her
at work.

Who knows maybe even introduce u as college friend and u knowing I'm your bitch.

I'm free now and kind of in area if you wanna meet. Let me know and if
free now and we can discuss.

Thx

End of Reply----->

I found this intriguing. I've known of the whole cuckold thing for a while as I like watching amateur cuckold videos, and I've read a little about the psychology behind it, different types of cuckholds, the roles and the lifestyle. I'm not sure I would derive any pleasure in being a cuckold myself myself but I would derive pleasure in watching my partner having sex with others (if I had a partner!).

I also found it interesting that he'd given me his phone number so readily as part of the initial response. I opted to email him back with a "hi, thank for the detailed response, what's new... blah blah". When he didn't respond I bit the bullet and sent him in a text.

He responded immediately with "hi there, thanks for texting, I'm in the car, are you free to speak". It appeared there's wasn't going to be any ping-pong mails with this guy. Although his enthusiasm was worrying me i.e. was he into phone sex or perhaps the type who talks a lot, has a wank and promptly loses interest. I responded to his question with a "yes, call me" and his duly did.

It was a very odd conversation that went along the lines of "Hi there, how are you?" he said.

"I'm well thanks, busy week at work and all that but good to be relaxing on a Saturday. And how are you?" I responded.

He paused and said "well I'm doing fine thanks, got a lot on my plate with my ex, the divorce, my current girlfriend who I've been with 2 years and my ideas". I thought he's covered an awful lot of ground there in one sentence and I hope he doesn't want to go into each item individually.

Regardless, my initial impression was that he was a nice guys, well spoken, polite etc. I skipped forward through his comment and asked "what ideas?" This was a deliberate ploy to jump straight to the cuckold discussion.

"Well we all have kinks don't we, for example I'm into being dom'ed by mistresses and that's how I got into guys because my mistress would make me suck cock. You know what I mean?" I responded with "yes, I don't particularly understand that scenario but yes we all have our own fantasies I guess".

The conversation continued as he gave me a potted history about himself that I'll summarise in the bullets below because the conversation lasted for 1 hour:

1. He was going through a divorce and he had a young c***d
2. His wife had slept with other men during their relationship such as his managers. He clearly liked that given he was a sub.
3. His ex maintained relationships with guys she was seeing prior to their separation and the separation was not because of this 'open' relationship
4. He was now dating a women in her mid-40's and the relationship was going through a rough patch
5. He was a little confused and wanted to meet a guy whose cock he could suck, be submission to and take instructions.
6. He wanted the same guy to take contact his partner with a view to having "some type" of relationship that he struggled to define but nevertheless appeared to be an interesting proposition.
7. He needed a way of orchestrating his cuckold'ness to his partner and he was looking for a vehicle to do it e.g. I was an old uni friend and we used to share girlfriends or an old work colleague that used to sl**p with his wife.

What specifically interested me was his focus on being overpowered and humiliated in front of her, his friends and f****y. For example at some point in the conversation he uttered "it would be great if I could rim you and you could call her at the same time". Again there was another reference along this theme, "you can look at her pics and vids whilst I suck you off". This made me smile because every guy with a partner things that's a novel thing and clearly its not. And then finally, "perhaps you can tell her amount me, that I'm submissive".

The call culminated in offering to meet him for a drink later that day. He struck me as a nice guy and he clearly needed to talk. Perhaps he was living a fantasy or something else. Either way, a drink wouldn't be harmful.

He sent me a text within 10 mins asking "can I have another quick chat". I responded with "sure, call me". He said "hi, sorry to call you again so soon, I'm really horny and just wondered..." I immediately interjected and said "sorry I'm not into cyber only the real thing". He said something afterwards but I wasn't listening. I guess that's the assertive side of me. He text back to apologise so I used the opportunity to ask for pics. We exchanged photo’s and his partner appeared attractive. She looked about 5’4”, size 12, full figured (not fat), nice breasts etc. I’m not a pic collector so received only 1. It was good enough at this early juncture.

It got to about 17:30 and I sent him a quick text but received no response. My immediate thoughts were "time waster". At around 20:00 he replied. I was heading home from drinks with colleagues so we met on the main road.

He seemed like a nice guy. Like me he also worked in IT but hadn't been working for 2 years as a result of his divorce. We had a drink but it was way too loud in the bar so we headed back to my place. We sat down and continued our discussion about all things relating to his cuckold'ing.

I told him to kneel in front of me, take my cock out and suck it. He followed the instructions well and for an inexperienced guy sucked very well. He went down on my shaft and seemed very willing & eager. We took poppers which always help me become a complete verbal slut. He sucked me some more and then stopped. The poppers had gone to his head. It was a very short session in terms of the sexual contact but the scenario was good and heightened my interest.

I didn't climax either which is odd for me. I think it was because he doesn't take cum in any form. I prefer guys or girls that swallow or take it in the mouth. Ideally I like my partners to play with it. For me watching someone take cum in their mouth is the most visually stimulating sexual act of all. It encapsulates everything I enjoy. And therefore being with someone who doesn't take cum in their mouth is somewhat of an anticlimax.

However, I can't complain as I knew about this from the outset because he told me. He also said he could possible do it, if I was willing to take it slow. He left around 11:30. I was completely d***k. I received a few text's from him that I failed to respond to immediately.

His final text of the night was "your still welcome to meet the girlfriend tomorrow, maybe you can tell her that you used to sl**p with my ex wife with me watching". That's a great, if somewhat bizarre, text message to wake up to on a Sunday morning.

So what happens next? Firstly, I'd like him as my cock sucker and rimmer. Naturally, he will graduate to swallowing cum and rimmer deeper the more he is trained. He has the capacity to become a complete cum slut contacting men just to swallow their load. Wanting to eat cum of his partners pussy is merely the start.

Secondly, the next part of the question is more complicated i.e. what happens next with his girlfriend. This is a very interesting scenario worthy of a paragraph or two. Let's talk about her, for example she doesn't know the following:

1. He is bisexual
2. He is submissive
3. He is a cuckold. In his cuckold role he wants her to sl**p with men to humiliate him
4. He is a good track record in Points 2-3 (with the ex) and is starting to explore Point 1.

I know the following about her:

1. She enjoys sex e.g. she tells him she like the feel of his cock inside her. One extra mark for being verbal!
2. She appears not to watch porn or kinky porn. In my experience she is less likely to be aware of Points 2-3 above.
3. She has not had an open relationship. He explained that when they first met she stopped calling him as she was kind of coming out of another relationship. As a result I can only surmise that she is inclined to monogamy in a relationship.
4. Things I should have asked but failed to include (a) how does she take cum (b) does she have many sex toys (c) does she have lots of revealing lingerie (d) do they ever have 'sex' nights where she dresses like a slut (e) in the throes of passion what does she like to be referred to i.e. slut, whore or something else and how does she react (f) does she finger herself whilst you watch (g) have you ever fingered her and placed the finger immediately into her mouth afterwards (h) what is her number fantasy and (i) how dirty is she from a scale of 1 to 10. 7 = loves rimming ass, 8 = loves BB ass-to-mouth, 9 = loves watersports, 10 = ? but it must be good :)

Overall you'd think that I'd painted a somewhat pleak outlook or that there wasn't much chance. However, women change with age, they want adventure, they gain in confidence and old social constraints are easily removed. By contrast men become less adventurous, prone to predictability and routine. To take this women on this journey she needs confidence and security in her man. In my experience women will do anything if they are placed in a secure, confident and loving environment. The converse is also true i.e. it doesn't take much for a women to take it all away.

So these are the facts and the challenges. I've not heard back from him today to setup the meet & greet with his girlfriend. It may never happen but the thoughts have been entertaining. Finally, you've probably realised this is not a story. Rather it is a true life event. So if it does progress I'll surely write an update.